Poems About Saying Goodbye — Written From Dulac, Where People Leave Every Morning

What Most Goodbye Poems Get Wrong

Search for poems about saying goodbye and most of what comes back is a funeral in verse. Breakups. Deaths. The kind of farewell poems written from grief, on the other side of the loss, looking back at the door that already shut. The lines are heavy. The lines are final. The lines were written in the kitchen at 2am after the worst day of someone's life.

That work has a place. But it isn't the only kind of goodbye people are living. Most goodbyes don't get a poem because they don't look like a poem. They look like a man putting his coffee cup in the sink and walking out the back door at five minutes after four in the morning. They look like a mother standing at the kitchen counter after her son drives off, putting the milk back in the fridge for something to do.

Poems about endings tend to mean the big, hinge-of-the-life kind — the funeral, the divorce, the move across the country. Those are real. But the goodbyes that shape a life are smaller and more frequent. They happen on Tuesdays. They happen with the radio on. Nobody writes them down because they happen too often to feel like art.

That's the lane this book sits in. DULAC POETRY is a book of farewell poems for the ordinary leavings — the goodbye that doesn't announce itself, and the love that stays anyway.

Goodbye on the Bayou

In Dulac, Louisiana, goodbye is something you do every morning before the sun is up. It isn't a ceremony. It's a schedule. The men go out, the women stay, and nobody makes a production of either part of it.

The shrimp boats leave first. Engines turning over before light, a low diesel cough in the dark. The wake comes a minute later. Then the wives at the screen door, watching the running lights move down the bayou until the bend takes them. Nobody stands there for long. The coffee's on. The day is already starting on the inside of the house.

Read an excerpt from DULAC POETRY and you'll hear the way Mitchell writes those mornings — short lines, plain words, no flourish. Just the boat, the water, the woman at the screen, and the day waiting on the other side of it.

The kids leave next. For school, for the service, for a city that's any city. Trucks idle in the gravel. A duffel bag goes in the bed. A father slaps the side of the cab once. A mother holds on a beat longer than she meant to and then steps back. The taillights go around the bayou bend and the porch light gets switched on a little earlier from then on. Nobody says the word. That's poems about leaving in this place — the tailgate, the gravel, the diesel, the wave.

By suppertime the men come back smelling like salt and ice. The morning's goodbye is already a memory. There'll be another one tomorrow. It's the kind of leaving that comes back around like a tide — and the kind of leaving that comes back around like a tide shapes a person more than the big farewells ever do.

Nobody makes a production of it. And that restraint is its own kind of tenderness.

Why Poems About Letting Go Outlast the Moment

Poems about letting go outlast the moment they were written about because they name the thing that didn't get named in the room. The moment of goodbye is small and unspoken. Half the time you don't know it's the moment. You think it's a Tuesday. You find out a year later, sitting in the same kitchen, that something ended on that morning.

Poetry shows up later. In the quiet. After the truck's gone, after the funeral's done, after the boat's tied up for the season. Poetry is what arrives when the words finally do — when the goodbye that didn't use the word gets a sentence built around it, and the sentence sits down across the table from you and keeps you company.

That's why farewell poems last and farewell speeches don't. A speech tries to close the moment off. A poem holds the moment open long enough to let you understand what you were living through. Mitchell's work doesn't just understand goodbye — it understands the silence before it and the weight after it. It carries the same silence that runs through poems about fathers — the kind of restraint that mistakes itself for distance and is actually love wearing work clothes.

That's the work poems about saying goodbye are supposed to do. Not fix anything. Not finish anything. Just stay in the room with you while you figure out what just happened. Order DULAC POETRY on Amazon and you'll have something to keep on the kitchen counter for the morning after the morning of the goodbye.

A Book That Holds the Words You Didn't Say

DULAC POETRY is a small book. Forty-five pages. Paperback or Kindle for $3.99. The poems are short. They read aloud the way Mitchell talks: plain, specific, weighted. Few adjectives. The right nouns. Shrimp boats. The marsh in October. The dock that's been rebuilt three times. The screen door closing soft. A truck cab that used to have two people in it.

It's the book to give someone who is leaving. The kid headed to boot camp. The friend moving to a city with too much highway in it. The grown daughter loading a U-Haul. It's also the book to give yourself, for someone who already has — the parent you still can't talk about, the friend you didn't say enough to, the marriage that ended on a Wednesday and you didn't know it was Wednesday until Thursday. Read a poem from the book and the shape of it will become obvious.

The book carries the words you didn't get to say. The words you couldn't. The words that were too plain and too true to come out of your mouth in the moment. It carries them gently. It doesn't lecture. It doesn't advise. It sits on the kitchen counter after the kid leaves, after the funeral, after the move, and it stays there longer than the casserole dishes do.

As poems for someone leaving, this is the kind of book you slip into a duffel bag without a card. The card gets thrown out. The book stays. It's a quiet companion in a noisy decision. And for the reader who keeps it, the way it bridges farewell and family runs straight into poems about sons — the boy on the boat, the boy in the truck cab, the boy you raised who is now the man at the door.

For the Dad Who Never Said It Out Loud

Father's Day is June 15. Nine days from now. Some of you are already standing in the card aisle, looking for the version that doesn't lie. You won't find it. Cards weren't built for the kind of father most of you actually had.

Most fathers in Dulac, Louisiana never said goodbye out loud. They said it with a handshake that held a second too long. They said it by standing in the driveway until they couldn't see the car anymore. They said it by walking back into the house and turning the radio on instead of crying. They said it by being there at 4am the morning of every leaving — quiet, dressed, coffee already poured, ready to drive you to the airport, the bus station, the boat. They said goodbye by showing up. The word never made it out of the truck.

That's the dad this book was written for. And it was written for you, the kid who is now grown and trying to figure out how to love a man who doesn't know how to be loved out loud. The dad who taught you to mend a net for fifteen years and now has the net to himself. The dad who's been on the dock his whole life and is suddenly the one being left at it.

If your father is the kind of man who never says goodbye — who just shows up, stays until the last possible minute, and walks back inside without a word — this book was written for him, and for you. Forty-five pages. Plain language. Written by a working man from Dulac, Louisiana, in the same dialect your dad uses when he's trying to say something he doesn't have the words for. Slip it into the Father's Day envelope. The card gets thrown out. The book stays on the counter by the coffee maker until October.

From the bayou. By Mitchell Parfait.

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